"I wouldn't tell anyone except you, Mother, but I...
"I wouldn't tell anyone except you, Mother, but I really do need advice, for if John goes on much longer I might as well be widowed," replied MrsBrooke, drying her tears on Daisy's bib with an injured air
"Goes on how, my dear?" asked her mother anxiously
"He's away all day, and at night when I want to see him, he is continually going over to the Scotts'It isn't fair that I should have the hardest work, and never any amusementMen are very selfish, even the best of themDon't blame John till you see where you are wrong yourself
"But it can't be right for him to neglect me
"Don't you neglect him?"
"Why, Mother, I thought you'd take my part!"
"So I do, as far as sympathizing goes, but I think the fault is yours, MegDid John ever neglect you, as you call it, while you made it a point to give him your society of an evening, his only leisure time?"
"No, but I can't do it now, with two babies to tend
"I think you could, dear, and I think you oughtMay I speak quite freely, and louis vuitton scarf will you remember that it's Mother who blames as well as Mother who sympathizes?"
"Indeed I will! Speak to me as if I were little Meg againI often feel as if I needed teaching more than ever since these babies look to me for everything
Meg drew her low chair beside her mother's, and with a little interruption in either lap, the two women rocked and talked lovingly together, feeling that the tie of motherhood made them more one than ever
"You have only made the mistake that most young wives make-forgotten your duty to your husband in your love for your childrenA very natural and forgivable mistake, Meg, but one that had better be remedied before you take to different ways, for children should draw you nearer than ever, not separate you, as if they were all yours, and John had nothing to do but support themI've seen it for some weeks, but have not spoken, feeling sure it would come right in time
"I'm afraid it won'tIf I ask him to stay, he'll think I'm jealous, and I wouldn't insult him rolex submariner 50th anniversary by such an ideaHe doesn't see that I want him, and I don't know how to tell him without words
"Make it so pleasant he won't want to go awayMy dear, he's longing for his little home, but it isn't home without you, and you are always in the nursery
"Oughtn't I to be there?"
"Not all the time, too much confinement makes you nervous, and then you are unfitted for everythingBesides, you owe something to John as well as to the babiesDon't neglect husband for children, don't shut him out of the nursery, but teach him how to help in itHis place is there as well as yours, and the children need himLet him feel that he has a part to do, and he will do it gladly and faithfully, and it will be better for you all
"You really think so, Mother?"
"I know it, Meg, for I've tried it, and I seldom give advice unless I've proved its practicabilityWhen you and Jo were little, I went on just as you are, feeling as if I didn't do my duty unless I devoted myself wholly to youPoor Father took to his borse replica books, after I had refused all offers of help, and left me to try my experiment aloneI struggled along as well as I could, but Jo was too much for meI nearly spoiled her by indulgenceYou were poorly, and I worried about you till I fell sick myselfThen Father came to the rescue, quietly managed everything, and made himself so helpful that I saw my mistake, and never have been able to got on without him sinceThat is the secret of our home happinessHe does not let business wean him from the little cares and duties that affect us all, and I try not to let domestic worries destroy my interest in his pursuitsEach do our part alone in many things, but at home we work together, always
"It is so, Mother, and my great wish is to be to my husband and children what you have been to yoursShow me how, I'll do anything you say
"You were always my docile daughterWell, dear, if I were you, I'd let John have more to do with the management of Demi, for the boy needs training, and it's none too soon to hermes wallet beginThen I'd do what I have often proposed, let Hannah come and help youShe is a capital nurse, and you may trust the precious babies to her while you do more houseworkYou need the exercise, Hannah would enjoy the rest, and John would find his wife againGo out more, keep cheerful as well as busy, for you are the sunshine-maker of the family, and if you get dismal there is no fair weatherThen I'd try to take an interest in whatever John likes--talk with him, let him read to you, exchange ideas, and help each other in that wayDon't shut yourself up in a bandbox because you are a woman, but understand what is going on, and educate yourself to take your part in the world's work, for it all affects you and yours
"John is so sensible, I'm afraid he will think I'm stupid if I ask questions about politics and things
"I don't believe he wouldLove covers a multitude of sins, and of whom could you ask more freely than of him? Try it, and see if he doesn't find your society far more agreeable than dolce & gabbana bag Mr